I have really high days. These days are like I am flying. Everything goes great. Everything is well with all my family, friends and everything is well with my work.
And then there are days that I “fall”. These are days when I have something bothering me or something has happened that takes away my peace of mind.
Something may be wrong in my family, with a friendship, or I may have experienced a loss or something else has happened to get me “down”.
Or I may have lost my way, lost sight of God’s plan for me and I take a really bad tumble. And I may stay down a while. Longer than you might expect.
But I rise again. Stronger than ever before. I see the lesson in the pain and I try to grow from the lesson and apply it later.
I fall, I rise. I make mistakes. I live. I learn. I’ve been hurt, but I’m alive. I’m human and I’m not perfect, but I’m thankful.
It’s who we are as humans. We all lose our way sometimes. We all make mistakes. It’s called living. And we learn from our mistakes–all of them.
There are no “small” or “large” mistakes when it comes to life lessons. Each mistake becomes a lesson for you to carry forward along your journey. That’s life.
That’s how we grow. That’s how we become the person God is molding for His use. That’s how we figure out God’s purpose for us.
Someone once asked me, “Charity, have you never been hurt? How are you able to maintain this level of positivity all the time?”
Yes, I’ve been hurt…many times. But I don’t let the hurt define me. You can’t either. You have to let the hurt strengthen you and make you wiser.
Once you let the hurt define you, you stop living. I’m alive in spite of the hurt I’ve gone through. I’m alive and living in spite of the people who have tried to bring me down.
I’m not perfect by any means. None of us are. That’s where we find His Amazing Grace so perfect.
Because of God’s grace, we don’t have to be perfect.His grace is sufficient for all of us.
This life can be so hard sometimes. It can be rough, tough and hard to maneuver through. But, all-in-all, I’m thankful for this beautiful life I live and I’m thankful for my many blessings.
Sending you blessings of love and gratitude from Sterrett, Alabama!
Charity M. Richey-Bentley
Trish says
I pray everyone will read this. It is spoken with love. Good Bless you, Charity and all who share your message. 🙏❤️
Sonia long says
That is so true and we are BLESSED BY AMAZING GOD.❤
Charity M. Richey-Bentley says
Thank you so much for being here.
God bless you.
Charity
Lentz JanetJJJ says
Yes we are.amen
AliceliceAlic eAlice says
Yes everyday I thank GOD FOR ANOTHER DAY AMEN.
Susan- Elizabeth Heyn says
Thank you, Charity for this beautiful Love note from God through you. I so need this Love note, as I am feeling weary from the world pulling at me and frustrations ruling my thoughts and actions. I long and strive to become who God created me to be for His Purpose. Thank you again for this loving reminder of Whos we are, the One who Loved us first.
TYJ:)GIG
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Roberta says
This is truly beautiful!!
ma says
Monday Hugs right back at you…
This morning I go on-line again, with children
trying to learn. Four more weeks of Summer Session.
Then, my vacation, some time off. I’m thinking I’d like to
explore a horse ranch not far from my home, that specializes
in ride on therapy, for kids of all ages.
Thank you for your words of encouragement.
They do me a world of good. Have a great day! ❤️
Charity M. Richey-Bentley says
Thank you so much for being here.
Horse therapy is absolutely wonderful. I have an autistic grandchild.
Horses have really helped him.
God bless you.
Charity
Delia smith says
Can you send it to me.please
Charity M. Richey-Bentley says
Thank you for being here, Delia.
I’m not sure what you are asking for.
Please advise.
God bless you.
Charity
ofra says
Happy 4th Charlie, and thank you for the wise thought!
Charity M. Richey-Bentley says
Thank you for being here. God bless and keep you.
Charity
Angie says
Really needed to read this today! Thank you for posting
Charity M. Richey-Bentley says
I’m so glad you were able to see it.
God bless you.
Charity
Sonya says
Thanks u God bless
Sonya says
Thank u Jesus. We love u Jesus!
Barbara says
Thank you for this letter is very nice and very true God bless you for sending this it was encouragement for me
Pat says
Sometimes I get so busy with so much to do in a day, just to realize that I didn’t do nothing. I thank you GOD for these moments of clarity, bless everyone and my imperfections .
Charity M. Richey-Bentley says
We all have those days.
God bless you.
Charity
Lady J says
Beautifully written! I know a lot of women who need to read this! I will definitely share! I couldn’t stop reading very powerful you should write a book telling your story. I know it would be a best seller! God bless you for sharing so much positivity and love to others through your images!
Charity M. Richey-Bentley says
Thank you so much.
God bless you.
Charity
Onita Harrison says
Please send me the horse mafia post to my facebook page daily. Thanks.
Charity M. Richey-Bentley says
Onita,
We cannot send you anything because of privacy issues.
If you have liked the page and you have clicked on “see first”,
you should be seeing our content in your newsfeed.
Blessings to you!
Charity
Pam says
This is me every day. I have up and down days and it is sad. I enjoy the days when I am up you just feel on top of the world.
Charity M. Richey-Bentley says
I am keeping you in my prayers and pray that you have more good days than bad.
God bless you and thank you for being here.
Charity
Dennis Amen says
My time is 03:58am date Friday 28 August 2020,it wasn’t my intention to wake up so early .I couldn’t sleep anymore,I had a dream and after the dream i woke up and prayed(I don’t usually do that ).I am seating on the stears ,reading a status from the horse mafia and it touched my heart .Thank you Charity ,God bless .There are healing words ,something more about your message. The message gave me peace. Thank God for people like you – Charity.
Charity M. Richey-Bentley says
Dennis,
Thank you so much for your kind words. You really blessed me.
God bless and keep you.
Charity
Onita Harrison 0 says
I had a top fan badge for this Facebook acct but it disappeared for some reason. Can you please replace it or tell me how I can retrieve it. Thanks.
Dudley Lewis says
Thank You dear Lord for for your daily blessings and love 💔 you have for each one of us your Children. We pray for your continuous help and blessings be always upon us all. Amen 🙏.
Cindy says
I love the things that are posted on here. They are how I feel but cant always put into words
Chris Spiers says
Thank you for sharing these beautiful words. I really needed this today. God Bless you!🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
Charity M. Richey-Bentley says
Thank you for being here.
God bless you.
Charity
Brenda says
That is a very good way of summing up life. I really love it thank you very much and may creator continue to bless you always.
Charity M. Richey-Bentley says
Thank you for being here.
Charity
Theresa Ooms says
I love you inspiration ,looking forward of your quotes that you give Or your prayers. Thank you for being there for us.
Annie Douglas says
I thank you for sharing the encouraging words of life. They mean so much to me.