Most of all, I’ve learned. A lot. And I learn every day and I pray that I continue to learn every day until the day I die. I never, ever want to be at a place where I stop learning. Isn’t that what life is all about? Learning?
In my life, I’ve lived, I’ve loved, I’ve lost, I’ve missed, I’ve hurt, I’ve trusted, I’ve made mistakes, but, most of all, I’ve Learned.
I think as we get older, we learn at a rate that is much faster than that when we are young. I think that’s just a factor of life. Maybe it’s because we allow more open space in our heart and mind in order to learn. Here at The Horse Mafia®, I am in a constant state of learning. And I am thankful for that.
I feel blessed to live the life I now live and the life I’ve lived up to this point. I’ve had some losses and I’ve been hurt. But even with those, I learned. I’ve learned from my losses and I’ve learned from my hurts. If you’ve never lost or never been hurt, you probably haven’t done much living.
And I’ve placed trust in people for whom later I wished I hadn’t. But’s that’s life too and I learned from it. Learning who you can trust is one of the most important life lessons. My grandmother used to say that you should try to trust people until you see that you can’t. And once you see that you can’t, it is probably best to avoid those people. I try to live by that.
And, Lord, the mistakes I’ve made. So many. But I now see mistakes as lessons learned and I grow from them. In my younger life, I didn’t handle mistakes so well. Each time I made a mistake, I would beat myself up for it over and over again. So I was reliving it over and over in my mind, keeping regret in my heart. That wasn’t very productive and I learned another way to deal with mistakes–you have to see them as lessons learned and grow from them.
I pray that as God grants me the number of my days, He will also continue to give me a love of learning!
Sending you learned blessings from Sterrett, Alabama!
Charity M. Richey-Bentley
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