Old roads, old dogs, old folks and old ways still have a lot to offer in this sped-up world we all live in.
Let’s slow down for a second. Inhale and slowly exhale. Just breathe. Isn’t our world fast? Today everything just seems to be so sped-up! You hurry to get showered and dressed for your day. You hurry through your first cup of coffee. You hurry to get out the door, drop the kids off and hurry to work. You hurry all day long to meet deadlines, to get projects finished, to make your conference calls, your meetings and answer emails. You hurry to get through traffic to get home, you hurry to get dinner done, you hurry to eat, you hurry through the dishes, you hurry to bed and when you wake up, it starts all over again.
We just hurry through our lives. Sometimes, I think we do it and don’t even realize it. It has become a way of life, a lifestyle.
As I was out in the pastures today with my babies, I found myself hurrying. I don’t know why I was hurrying–I guess I was trying to stay within a certain timeframe for the Facebook video. While I was in the pasture, I went live to update everyone on Hank and Arrow. And while I was doing it, I found myself rushing and trying to get as much done with the video as I could in a short amount of time. But I caught myself and I slowed down. I took a few deep breaths and let go of the “Facebook perfect video length” and just had fun showing y’all everything. It made the video so much more enjoyable.
I vowed today that I am going to start spending more time on those “things” that help me slow down–those things that have so much to offer in our fast-paced world.
This is a photo of one of the old roads on our home place. It curves around into the back pastures on the property. I spent thousands of hours on these roads growing up. I rode for hours and hours and there’s not a place on the planet that brings me more peace than these old roads. I am so blessed to still call this property home. I can get on a horse and start on one of these old road beds and my stress immediately leaves me.
I have always loved dogs. And I love puppies, but older dogs are such a treasure for me. If you’ve followed us for a while, you know that I lost two beloved Yorkies this past year, Tori and Jayce. And I now have Chloe who has helped my heart heal and who makes me laugh every single day.
Chloe Bentley
But my mother has a dog, Moses (we call him Mo) who is older. And he loves me. And, as strange as it sounds, I believe he knows that I was sad after losing Tori and Jayce and he has been so sweet. He is quite happy just to be beside me when I am there.
And my favorite “old folk” would have to be my grandmother who left this world in 2005. I still miss her every day and always remember all the old sayings she had. Mama (we called our grandmother “mama”) was one of the two strongest women I have ever known and gave so much to the raising of us four girls. Still today, especially at this time of year, I remember her sitting on the front porch, shelling peas and drinking sweet tea. And we were always talking about something–something of importance. Just thinking about mama brings me peace.
And “old ways”…I have decided to write my friend a letter. Yes, actually write a letter instead of sending a text or email! Can you imagine?!
You won’t have to look really hard to find something that helps you slow down. It may be a place, a person, an animal or an old way of doing things…but find it. Find it for your health, your peace of mind and your happiness!
If you missed our live video today, you can catch it here. https://www.facebook.com/TheHorseMafia/videos/1671678749531522/
And if you’re from a small town, you will probably like this: https://www.facebook.com/TheHorseMafia/videos/1669589909740406/
Y’all be blessed and well!
Charity
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Absolutely beautiful! Thanks for sharing. Reminds me of the old days. I sat on my back porch with with my dog and eating lunch watching the horses graze in the field. So relaxing, I have tell ya!
What a pleasant read! I am 80 yrs and remember so much about the slower years. They were so peaceful, however, we had fewer amenities,but life was much more peasant. Thank you for the peaceful reminders.
You reminded me of my childhood & early teen years. Shelling peas with my aunt, shucking corn, learning to drive the tractor ( of course I ran into the fence) & my uncle didn’t get mad, babysiting my sister’s 6 kids & making them a “One Egg Cake” & forgetting to put the egg in, riding the shetlands for hours, sitting at team ropings watching my husband & sons (over 1400 ropers at one event!), watching my daughter run at track meets for 6 years). No cell phones!! Slowed down & enjoyed life! Love your video!